You need to have a conversation with your attorney regarding your concerns.
Also, you don't hire a lawyer to tell you what you want to hear, you hire a lawyer to represent you based on the information and facts at hand.
My first question would be: are you not allowed to consume drugs or alcohol while on PTP and are you being randomly tested? If you are being tested and not allowed to smoke then it is likely your case will be brought back to the trial list. You should talk to your lawyer or a lawyer if this is the case so that perhaps you can come up with a plan to deal with this issue. You might be able to remain on PTP for longer or with additional conditions - it really depends on how well you are doing...
You need to talk to a lawyer ASAP. I'm not sure if you have been charged yet. He or she might advise you to get a blood test to see if you had been drugged. Don't talk about this to anyone until you speak to a lawyer.
Usually, Domestic Violence prosecutors are trained as to the different types of abuse, however, a lot of it cannot be used at trial in most cases as there is often not evidence that is admissible in court. Generally, Domestic Violence Prosecutors are compassionate with victims and do their best.
.09 is close to the limit so it might be worth a lawyer. There are degrees of error that would make a .09 defensible.
The fees for a cwof and probation end up being around 2000 I think. You can pay them monthly.
You didn't say if you have a record or give any other facts of the case, but technically you could get 2.5 years from and after (meaning consecutive not concurrent) on each of the larceny overs. It also depends on if you are being charged Federally or at the State level. You are more likely to be incarcerated at the Federal level.
I refer to Attorney Pang's answer. He explains all of the possibilities regarding your prior record. If you are worried I would hire an attorney to go with you to court. You don't want to risk having an entry on your adult record.