Unmarried people can adopt in Massachusetts. You would have a far easier time if you were married, nonetheless. In order to waive the homestudy requirement, the court will look to that stability of the relationship. Marriage would be considered more stable than being engaged.
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You can file a complaint in District court for a criminal violation. It would be wise to have some photographic evidence in hand. You will have to present evidence to a clerk at a show cause hearing before a criminal complaint will issue. If you are successful, the court can issue a stay away order.
In Pennsylvania, an unmarried couple may be required to participate in an additional hearing beyond the typical adoption process called a "good cause" hearing to make the case that the adoption should be granted based on the child's best interests. It is not likely that an unmarried heterosexual couple will succeed because they have not made a commit long term to their relationship. It would be far better all around for you to marry first and then the process will be much simpler. If you...
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The following is provided for general informational purposes only and should be construed as neither legal advice nor the formation of an attorney-client relationship. All depends on your state laws regarding paternity. If the child is considered to have no legal father, it will be a lot easier to have your new husband adopt. In that case, you can usually request a change of name. Since her father is deceased, there may be issues of inheritance or social security survivors benefits which...
Since you are now a legal adult, you can file in your local circuit court to change your name. It is probably not possible to change the parent names on your birth certificate, however. Please refer to this link for further information: http://www.law.siu.edu/selfhelp/info/court/namchsup.pdf
There are two ways to proceed with this adoption. One is to terminate the father's rights, the other is to obtain the father's consent. Much will depend on the status of legal paternity. If you were married, or the bio father is named on the birth certificate, he has parental rights which much be recognized. If legal paternity is less clear, it would be best to consult a local attorney regarding how to proceed regarding any rights he may have under your state law. It would not serve you...
There are two issues here- one is an adoption issue. You could adopt this child if the family would consent. The more difficult issue is the immigration issue. You should post your question on the immigration forum to find out whether there is a possibility to obtain an adoption visa for a child under these circumstances.
Every state is different, and it will depend on your state laws. If the father does not support the adoption, it will most likely be necessary to terminate his parental rights. This could be a difficult and lengthy process. A minor criminal record can usually be waived. An adoption agency may be able to advise you about how to go about this.