Before spending money on trying to prove cruel and abusive, sit down with a lawyer to determine if it is necessary. You might find that your divorce would be cheaper filing a no-fault divorce and that your child support, alimony, property distribution would be essentially the same.
You are right. Until Ordered otherwise, you have full custody of your daughter. My advice is not to rock the boat. Give him the daycare info. I'm not sure what you mean about forms, but his actions indicate that he approves and consents to where you have moved. Good luck.
Yes, the Judge can Order you to release information relevant to your case. You must have indicated to the Court, in your financial statement or otherwise, that you are on SSDI. You can choose not to sign the authorizations, but then you will be subject to sanctions for Contempt. The Judge will draw negative conclusions as to why you will not produce what is Ordered. You should first file a Motion for Reconsideration and proffer another way to produce the records. For example, does the...
Hourly rates for modifications are the same rate that lawyer would charge for a divorce. Modifications typically involve only one or two issues and after a consultation I usually give my clients a flat fee option if I believe the case will be settled short of trial.