Legal advice on Parenting plans and divorce

Hello, I am currently in a child custody process over my 6 month old. I am her mother and her custodial parent. This is an out of state case. My state has jurisdiction. (856 miles apart). Mediation is pending schedule and I am curious of how detailed I need to be if I want to bring up relocating to another state (further away). Did I need to show details of where I would live, where I would work, daycare, etc. to get my relocation approved? Do I need to show support in the new state? Or how specific do I need to be if I was to bring this topic into mediation without it making me look like a “wild card” for lack of better words? I want to relocate for better financial stability and more affordable place to live.

I am trying to find the appropriate legal help for my situation. I got married in Pinal county AZ in 2014. In 2015 my pregnant wife and I moved back home to where we both grew up in Clark Co WA. In Dec 2015 our son was born in Clark Co. Then in July 2016 we got divorced. When we got divorced a parenting plan was created through the court. In Aug 2019 my ex wife wanted to move to Arizona with my son. She filled the paperwork with the court I fought it and they created a temporary order allowing her to move as well as a temporary parenting plan. COVID hit so we have not yet gone to trial over any of this. We have since been back to court because she wouldn’t allow my son to come and visit because of COVID for Christmas break. The judge sided with her so I went to AZ for Christmas break. We do not currently have a trial date set. My son and ex wife has now been living in Az since sept 2019. In the next couple weeks I am moving to Oregon. My question is how would that work and what State do I need to retain an attorney in? My understanding of the laws are since no one would be living in Wa anymore that jurisdiction goes from Wa to my sons now home state of Az?

All of a sudden my ex-wife wants to share custody with our children after her boyfriend who molested my daughter moved out. I believe my ex-wife did more damage than the boyfriend because she never believed my daughter even though court mediation believed her and countless professionals. Having said that my kids have lived with me continuously for 3 1/2 years and visited with her, but were to never be in the presence of the boyfriend. Now all of a sudden that mom is broken up with the boyfriend she wants life to just change on a dime and it just doesn’t work that way . My position is this. I think there should be a slow re-introduction for the kids to start living with her. Of course the kids are happy and want to live with mom half-tiime. I understand that, they are kids, both aged 10 and 12, and want to see their mom. She has also had five different people that she calls roommates live with her to help pay the rent and I don’t go for that either because I don’t know what kind of people they are. We are going to mediation because the judge wants things hashed out and I’m all for that. However, I feel like I should get a full 730 done on her...

I leave for WA state in a month and my husband and I can’t come to an agreement for the kids. He thinks that because I am military I am not stable and I don’t deserve my kids. He has made it clear that boys need to be with their father, which I agree with but they also need their mother as well. He keeps saying the kids don’t need to be back and forth between WA and VA but if he and I live in 2 different states that’s the only logical solution. My question is can I take my kids to WA and file custody in another state without his permission or knowledge?

I’m primary custodian and we are not in good terms. The court order only states about the summer visitation and to let them know where your staying. This will only interrupt 2 hours of his time in which I have given him a day last week (he wasn’t aware it was make up) of make up time.

We agreed before baby was born what school. Since then we have a parenting plan and the dad is refusing to keep the agreement we made on the school child will attend. My child is autistic too. And my mom works at the school that we agreed on while I was pregnant. Dad is saying he doesn’t want him to go to the school because my mom works there.