Legal advice on Joint custody and child support

I’m a father and husband of 3 kids I’m the sole provider for my home for 2 of my kids and my wife, I share 50-50 custody of my son who is the third child he will be 8 years old soon. My concern is my child support has been an enormous burden on my family to a point where I can’t provide consistent essentials for my son when I have him during my time I have to rely on help at times for clothes and scrape pennies for groceries. At times getting behind on bills for our home sometimes rent. I’ve attempted to mediate the issue with my exwife however she is remarried with two extra kids herself both her and her husband work and it feels like she would rather have that extra money for her household then to hear my concern about being able to provide for my son and his sisters at my home. I’ve been told many times by other counsel my parenting plan is extremely unfair however I was not in a position to help myself as I had no family to financially help me to pay for a lawyer like my exwife did and does.

My son was coached by his mother to say that I assaulted him but it was overturned in court. I am still fighting to get custody back but have no more financial options left. I still have loans to pay for past attorneys. I cannot stop fighting, and need representation. Ive spent close to 60k in just over two years so far. My attorney recently withdrew do to not being current with my bill. I offered to make payments but they wouldn't work with me. I really need help. What can I do?

My god child has lived with me for over 2 years, she is now 13, her mom does not have a house or job to provide for her, does not call to check up on her or anything, she still gets welfare and child support for her but has not seen her in over 4 months now, she does not try to make contact with her, she has her own room in my home and I buy her everything she needs, her mom is living in the streets.

My children are 12 and 13 years old. My 12 year old son is starting to say he doesn’t want to visit with his father. Last night he gave me such a hard time to leave, I didn’t want to push him to go but I know he should go per court order. My son has been telling me he gets bothered with his father bc his father bad mouths me and says ugly things about me. I told my kids to tell him to just ask about them and focus on them and their well being. But they say he doesn’t listen and continues. Besides that, my son says that he also didn’t want to go bc the house is always filthy and smells bad and that their father feeds them junk food. Not sure what to do, my son asked me if it was his choice bc he shouldn’t be forced to go. Last night I didn’t want their father to think it’s me stopping them from going so I told my son if he didn’t want to go, then he would have to talk to his father himself. He called his father and his father yelled at him and told him he HAS TO go with him bc it’s his weekend. And told him he would be here and hung up. After 30 min my son went ahead and said he would go by force. What should I do?

so in the beginning the father of my child didnt want anything to do with our kid. but the courts told him that someone has to pay child support. and he just started paying child support in july of 2019 but on and off so my daughter was born 10-30-18 he has maybe paid a total of 10 months of child support. so they granted him with joint legal custody but my concern is that he is a registered sex offender and they still granted him joint legal custody and now visitation. where i dont want him to have anything to do with our daughter because of that fact and because he isnt paying child support its been close to 5 months now that he hasnt paid child support for our child. and another reasons is he hasnt been there for her never gave her birthday cards, toys, clothes, food or anything and that his mom had to pay for everything when it came to visitation. now he got charged back in december of 2020 with a gross misdemenor for violation of a protection order in May of 2020 and he either is going to take the states plea or go to trial and be convicted and go to jail for a year, or 3,000 dollar fine or both. so we have to wait on the whole visitation until his court is complete.

During the divorce process i filled out a income/expense sheet for the state of NJ to decide who pays child support. We both have 50/50 custody, but she makes more than i do. So based on the calculations of those sheets, i was supposed to get some money weekly, about $50 bucks a week. Divorce is finalized, then 4 months later my paycheck is being garnished for $87 a week, instead of receiving child support. Turns out the court accepted the ex's attorneys numbers for child support but left out extra income she makes. Is this fixable?

I have 50/50 shared custody of my son with his mother being domicile. I pay her child support bc I make the higher income. Over the past 2 years this passed year specifically she has rarely gotten our son when she’s supposed to. She is supposed to give right to first refusal to me and has went against those court orders numerous times and has tried to hide her sending him to a different family member on her time so I don’t get the upper hand on her. She recently started a new job for sheriffs office and has a schedule set up where on her nights with our son she is working same with her weekends she’s supposed to have him she’s working shift work so she can’t have him. Would I be able to achieve domicile over her taking her back to court. She’s made no Desire to change schedule to spend time with him. It’s April 10, 2021 and he hasn’t stayed with her in over a month. If we go back to court and get awarded domicile do I still pay child support being that I make more money than her? Please help. My son also makes it clear that he doesn’t want to go with her ever. He is 6. Thank you

I have physical custody and my ex has visitation. Wand I have joint legal custody. I would like to sign our son up for swim class its a mommy and me class. Our son is 2 and a half. They offer classes during the week and weekends. Our son has Saturday visits with his father so I wanted to sign him up for the Sunday class during his time with me. It's a 3 week class for 30 min every Sunday. If my ex and I have joint legal custody do I need to get his approval before signing our child up? What if my ex does not approve of our son attending the swim class?

She doesn’t want me on child support, she’s also moving to another state, my name is not on the birth certificate! We doing just fine much better. If we decide not to answer the phone for the CSRP meeting will they enforce child support on me?

The decree we agreed upon over 4 years ago was that we'd split 50/50 custody and that there was child support to be paid at $500/mth for 4 children while NCP got back on his feet. NCP also agreed that school and other debts accrued while married were going to be taken care of through by NCP. Before 2020, CP has been doing everything solo. Food, clothes, housing, w/one income. NCP throughout 2020 had kids roughly 80 days total. NCP lives with parents and is 36 y/o. Kids have no bed of their own in the residence and sleep where room is found. Not only with parents, but NCP also lives with 2 other working adults, a fully disabled handicapped sibling. NCP has requested investigator to see come and view housing at CP residence. Each child at CP's house has their own space in bunked rooms. NCP has filed a mod to decree while being dishonest on financial statement, owes over $7k in backed support plus school payments and medical bills for children, and didn't sign the date of filing the paperwork, and CP only has 21 days to respond. What can CP do from about this?