Should I File for Divorce?
The answer's rarely straightforward. If there's abuse or addiction it's easier to advise that someone to proceed. In most cases it's not.
From a purely business standpoint the decision to dissolve is hardly the best choice.Supporting two households with the same budget just doesn't add up.
If you take the children out of the equation, would you still be with this person?That's a good place to start, but children cannot be easily taken out of the equation.
VisualizeRealistically picture what life would be like for you a year, and then five years ahead without your spouse in your daily life. Not so much in a monetary sense, but in a personal and pragmatic sense.
Would a delay make it more likely that your children would be protected?Clients have confided that they waited until their children were old enough to distinguish truth from embellishment in order to secure their relationship.