Is My Spouse Cheating on Me?
If you're asking the question, the answer is likely "maybe." What to do about it is far more complicated.
Gather as much information as possible but keep the brakes on.With the tracking ability of cell phones it's nearly impossible to obliterate the trail of communication. For heaven's sake, don't hack in. Cell data is carefully catalogued by the provider whether or not your statements are itemized. An experienced lawyer knows exactly how to legally get the information.
Anger is unavoidable.But it's destructive to the potential of reconcilliation, and moreso to your children, no matter the age. It's not fair, but the blame is rarely unilateral.
Don't react violently or irrationally.Do not sit the kids down and reveal all gory details
A good life is the best revenge,With or without the wayward partner, so let the forgiveness begin.