How to respond when your spouse files for divorc
How to respond when your spouse files for divorce
Some people know the divorce is being filed and have spoken with the spouse about it. They know what to expect. For the rest it seems to come out of the blue. Of course later they will recall seeing all the signs leading up to the divorce.
This guide is to provide some basic instructions so you can deal with the divorce.
When you get served there are a few steps that you must take to ensure you are prepared for your divorce.
First, you must put aside the emotional shock and focus on dealing with the divorce. Next, the most important task is to ensure your children are not placed into the middle of your divorce.
Next read the papers that you were served with closely. There may be court dates contained in the paperwork. Additionally there may be discovery request and orders in the paperwork.
Then it is time to focus on what items to get.
A. Personal items
Pictures of the family and the children’s pictures.
Change all your email passwords as well as all social media passwords.
Secure your jewelry.
Get all old cell phones if you keep the old ones
Secure your computer and backup the hard drive.
Cell phone records
Credit card statements
Retirement account records
Investment account records
Insurance policies and records
Children’s school records
Take pictures of all items in the house.
Birth certificates (yours and the children’s)
Passports (yours and the children’s)
Make a budget that details income and expense so you can plan you live during the divorce process and afterwards. This is especially necessary if you are a spouse/parent that works in the home, and your spouse provides the income for the family.
Meet with an attorney who specializes in family law. Go over all the details of your marriage with your attorney.