Some divorces are messy. Thankfully, with the right mindset and preparations, your divorce does not have to be a nightmare--it does not have to be a dragged out, painful process you suffer through. Here are several steps you can take to make this transition a lot less bumpy.
When thinking through your assets or property, a good mental checklist to consider is the following:
Monitoring the mail, having your personal mail sent to another address and setting up your own medical and dental insurance are other good steps you should consider.
While you make many financial arrangements, don’t forget that your children need you more now than ever. Refrain from heated discussions, visible conflict and legal discussions in front of the children. Try to keep their world as “normal" as possible. Here's a helpful word of wisdom to keep in mind:Get your kids’ pictures out of your billfolds and blow them up and put them on the wall." If you have children, their best interests should remain your priority throughout the case. Questions such as, "where will they live? How will visitation work? and what kind of financial support will they receive?" are all questions you should be asking from the get-go. Your children will most likely want other questions answered such as Do I have to change schools? Will I still see my friends? Can I still participate in sports/activities?
Ultimately, getting a divorce attorney on your side is the best decision you can make, because it can provide you with a lot of peace of mind and can allow you to get all of your legal questions answered in an efficient, trustworthy manner. When your life, finances and family’s livelihood are on the line, don’t leave your future in the hands of someone who is less than competent.
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