First, a proxy marriage makes no sense and has no value with immigration.
Second, no, I don't see you qualifying for a waiver because of the fact that you committed a crime.
Talk to an attorney for more information.
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I agree, the fact that you are on probation will not be a valid basis for a waiver. You really should discuss your situation with an immigration attorney if you really want her to join you in the U.S.
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As an initial matter, a proxy marriage will be of little value. It would not help you achieve your ultimate goal of being together.
I do not think the fact that your are on probation and therefore, cannot travel will be sufficient grounds to establish hardship. Have you even asked your probation officer whether they would authorize your brief travel outside the United States? Hardship can be established for a variety of reasons, but it is a very fact-intensive inquiry. It would be best advised to speak with an experienced immigration attorney about your unique situation.
As a side note, you should consult an experienced immigration attorney regarding your criminal history. Some criminal convictions make a person ineligible to petition for a fiance/spouse.
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Inability to travel because of probation is not a ground for successful waiver. You do not need a proxy marriage for fiancee visa.
My answers are for general information only, NOT A legal advice because these are not tailored to your specific situation. Contact an Immigration Attorney if you need legal advice.