Ex awarded perm. alimony due to an illness. Ex works full time job. My child is going to college. No communication so I do not know if my child is still going to college. Has happened before with other child. Some days I have to push myself. I have pain due to my disability which causes me to take time off and affects me financially. During my divorce my disablilty was never considered. Now as I get older I'm finding it harder to work and need to know what steps to take.