You file a motion for child support and argue that ex is capable of earning X amount of gross income per month. The court can consider earning capacity in setting support. This is not an uncommon situation and, at a minimum, you have an argument to say ex could work full-time at minimum wage. Collecting the support is a different matter, but it is still better to have a support order in place. Hope this helps!
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