Her mother has passed away and she wants to go home to be with her family. But we have 2 children together i want to be in my kids life she just wants to leave and I'm scared she will take my kids from me. We were suppose to get married but plans change please if there's anything I can do please I need help I don't want to lose my boys.
The answer depends upon two things: (1) whether she is going with the intent to return, and (2) whether there are any custody orders in place. The courts usually don't prohibit a party from taking the children to attend a funeral so long as they are coming back, and the country they are visiting is part of the Hague Convention regarding child custody. But the courts recognize that this is dicey, so they usually suggest the parent go but leave the child behind. The other part of this is that if you don't appear on the birth certificate and you haven't established paternity, there is little you can do to stop her. So if that's the case, you should file right away to establish paternity and a custody order. That should add a level of protection for you. if you think she's going to go anyway, ask the court to impound the child's passport or to give it to you. The best thing you could do is to hire a lawyer to help you. Those of us that regularly handle these types of cases can get the details and give you advice tailored to your needs.
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