Will moving out of the house owned by my husband and me jeopardize the outcome of a divorce settlement?
3 attorney answers
I agree with my colleagues here. First of all, it is in your best interest to speak to an attorney one-on-one as early in the process as possible. If you believe divorce is on the horizon, I suggest you speak to an attorney now.
Second, it is also in your best interest to attempt to work things out on your own terms. If the communication is there, even if it is strained, you should try to come to as much of your own agreement as possible. If, however, it is truly impossible to get anywhere, you're attorney will guide you through the contested divorce process.
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The short answer is that is almost never in your interest to separate before you file and sort things out. The person in the home has little motivation to negotiate in good faith once the other party is out, and things usually take a longer, rather that a shorter time to resolve. I get that the situation stinks. The best advice is get the process moving, sort out the understanding, and then with everyone knowing what is expected of them, you separate. Obviously, if there is domestic violence involved, all bets are off. Call the cops.
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I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. I think that it's best that you not discuss the facts of your case publicly. I would suggest that you contact one or more of us directly. I would be happy to speak with you if you give me a call.
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