It's been over a year since I failed to appear. This will be the second time. The first time wasn't my fault because the mail never got sent to the right address. It's been over a year since I missed court and I've just been scared about it. I know the longer I wait the worse it might get. I believe I have mental issues that have stopped me trying to resolve this issue. I just recently have gotten myself a therapist and will be seeing a doctor soon. I would just like to get this resolved and stop knowing that some day they will catch up with me. I live in Pa the custodial parent lives in Va. I probably owe at least $11k in child support. She filed back in 2006 but I never received any notice until early 2009. My first hearing I was told I owed $9k in arrears.