November 8th is your filing deadline--that is 9 COURT days before your hearing (taking into consideration court holidays). That means you don't have a lot of time to hire an attorney and file a Responsive Declaration.
Depending on the opposing counsel and the judge, you may request a continuance so you and your attorney can prepare your case better. I suggest that you keep your Conciliation Court appointment (mediation), because if you can agree to the custody and visitation issues in mediation, that may be a better way to resolve things.
With regard to child support, it will be relatively easy to determine what "guideline" child support should be once the timeshare is established pursuant to a custody and visitation schedule (and you may not need to go to court if the opposing counsel will stipulate to a support amount based on each party's Income and Expense Declaration).
Until you are able to hire an attorney, please begin educating yourself on the law--your conversations with your attorney will make that much more sense. I am including links below which may be of some help. Good luck.
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If an attorney's schedule is free, three weeks notice for an OSC hearing is plenty.
Make sure that if you are waiting to find out that you do not miss the response deadline. File that on your own if needed.
Call your county bar association attorney referral line.
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Possibly, It'll depend on what issues are being heard, how crowded that judge's calendar is on that day, and whether you've got all the documents lined up so an attorney can "jump on the horse" without too much trouble or expense. Speak to an EXPERIENCED attorney as soon as possible, AND IF NECESSARY, PAY FOR A CONSULTATION if you find one with appropriate experience. DON'T WAIT.
I would and I have 37 years of representing Client's in Family Law. Stephen R. Cohen 1-213-819-1171, but the sooner you see an attorney the better to gather the neccessary evidence