Unfortunately, the DA is right- this issue is truly a part of the divorce case- if your wife engaged in financial shenanigans, it must be explored during the 'discovery' portion of the divorce case, testimony taken of the fraud/theft, and to the extent possible, explained to the divorce judge at the appropriate time(s). If possible, a 'credit' will be awarded to you, or utilized in determining your share of the equitable distribution of the marital assets, or 'distributive award'.
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