Your post is jumbled and confusing to read. The-the only thing I can make sense of if 14 years ago you divorced, now you claim that divorce was against your will and it was the Army that forced the event. You do not describe how or why the Army forced you to sign. You do not tell us what state you were divorced in (divorces are state actions and each state has different divorce laws). You claim your attorney lied and ask us why--but you give no facts about the lie for us to analyze, you claim the decree was forced on you, but give no facts about how you were coerced into agreeing and you don't describe why you have waited 14 years to challenge the matter.
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Hi, From your question is seems that you were divorced almost 12 years ago. The key is the language in your divorce decree. Twelve years later there is probably nothing that you can do about it. You should have acted almost immediately after your divorce became final. Good luck to you. I am sorry that there is not more that you can do.
You COULD consult with a lawyer in the state where your divorce was granted, but it is unlikely that anything can be done at this late date. Your posting suggests a recent change in what your ex is getting so that may make an opportunity.
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The Army would not be able to do anything about "taking her side" and granting her a part of your military retirement. Retirement is a property right that the law recognizes as being divisible at the time of divorce (though states will vary on how they go about this, or when it becomes divisible). It is not usually based upon financial need such as the wife being able to work and support herself (that is an alimony issue).
There may have been facts in your case that made it unfair to divide the retirement, but the time to address that would have been at the time of the divorce.
If an attorney looks at your case they MIGHT be able to find something to have the decree declared void, but that would be a long shot and I didn't see anything in your post that indicates to me that you would be able to --- but you could always have an attorney from the state that granted the divorce look into more closely for you.
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