My ex and I lived together for 7 years and had a baby at the time the engagement ring was given to me. The relationship then deteriorated due to extensive substance abuse and lack of commitment by the donor of the ring, causing me, the donee, to break off the engagement. In the 2.5yrs since then, I have kept the ring and plan to use the money from it to either secure a permanent residence for myself and our son OR put the money into our son's college fund. The donor now wants the ring back. My lawyer says it is a gift and I should ignore him. What are the specifics of who is entitled to it?