I put a down payment of $955 on the engagement ring and fiance later paid the remainder of $3,000. He broke off the engagement 2 months before the wedding (was seeing another women and planning a wedding with her too). Do I legally get to keep the ring? I am in the state of California. He also owes me money for all wedding deposits that I put on my credit card totalling $20,000. How can I get him to pay for half if not all the wedding deposits?