It's unclear from your question whether your soon-to-be-ex-husband is on board with the idea of selling the house. If he's not, you can't sell it without a court order for sale. You and your ex have control over what happens to the sale money; it can go into once attorney's trust account, a joint signature trust account under the control of both attorneys, or you and your soon-to-be-ex can even agree to simply divide it immediately.
Given that you are currently represented by counsel, your best course of action would be to have an open and frank conversation with your attorney about these issues.
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The funds would go into one of the attorney's trust fund and would only be spent upon court order or agreement of the parties.
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