It is really next to impossible to proceed pro ce in a contested divorce case. If you cannot afford an attorney, there are many legal aid projects that deal with domestic issues. Good luck.
If you are not going to use an attorney then you should find your local rules or court and look under disocvery, there will be the examples in their, take care.
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I agree with other counsel. I would suggest that you contact the bar association in Allegheny County to determine if you qualify for reduced services. There are forms available on line for discovery, but the requests must've relevant and tailored to your case, so it is not possible to provide you with this information in this venue.
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You should consult an attorney about filing discovery in your matter. There are very few programs that assist litigants with a contested divorce that involves the division of property in Allegheny County. There are a number of programs though that do offer free consultations.
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I agree with the other attorneys who are urging you to get at least some legal advice regarding proceeding with discovery. If you really can't afford an attorney, and you're not able to get alimony pendente lite or other funds to help you with attorneys' fees, you may find someone who will do what's called a "limited representation." It is not the absolute best way to handle a divorce, but it may at least get you through the discovery process so you can make some decisions. Limited representation would involve having someone analyze your financial/discovery situation, and then ghost-write interrogatories and/or requests for production for you to serve on your wife. However, that attorney would not enter a formal appearance on your behalf, nor be responsible for your case beyond preparing the documents and advising you when needed. (Many attorneys will not do something like this as they believe it's analogous to handing someone a scalpel and a map of his appendix, and then having him do his own surgery.)
If you find someone who is willing to do this for you, or even if you figure out on your own how to prepare interrogatories and other discovery requests to serve on your wife through her counsel, the next question is what you do with the information when it's presented to you. Can you analyze it on your own? At that point, you should have good legal advice again, so you can figure out what kind of settlement would be appropriate in your case. You would also want someone to look over any settlement agreements for you, or represent you in court if it doesn't settle and goes to hearing.
What puzzles me about the reply that you got from your wife's attorney is that you are absolutely entitled to your wife's financial information -- most likely the exact same type of information they asked of you, so why is her lawyer playing hardball and making you go through formal discovery to get it when he could just as easily send it to you by request? Maybe you two got off on the wrong foot initially, or maybe that's just the way he is. In any event, it doesn't bode well for you to be able to work with this guy, so it's an extra red flag that you should consider hiring counsel.
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