If you don't have sole custody already, you should file for a modification so the judge grants you sole custody. You shouldn't file to terminate his rights because then you will lose the right to receive child support. Even though he hasn't been paying, the fact that he has a warrant out for his arrest may cause him to eventually pay you.
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