I live in Georgia my kids live in New York I don't get to see them haven't seen him in 5 years what can I do to just sign my rights over to their mom
NO such thing (unless someone is adopting the children). The failure to visit is solely YOUR choice and you don't get to not support kids because you don't bother to visit. (To get visitation, you have to legitimate the children, or if you have visitation, enforce it in court, and once you do, it's up to you to do what many do every day, fly there or fly the kids - as they say "Delta is ready when you are.")
Regardless of whether you visit, when you have sex, you cannot shift the costs of child rearing to the other parent, or taxpayers. You must pay support until 18, or, in some cases, beyond that.
Absent a court order where you sought and got visitation, you have no visitation rights. But not seeking them is your choice, and you pay support no matter what.
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Unless there was a custody order issued in Georgia, New York has jurisdiction over your kids and you should consult with a NY attorney. However, under Georgia law (and I suspect NY is the same) you can't "sign over your rights" unless there is an adoption, Your children are entitled to your support whether or not you chose to see them.
You need to contact an attorney in New York about this.
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Their mother already has all the rights she needs, so she doesn’t need yours. The children need two parents, not one. So if the children’s mother marries, her spouse can adopt the children then.
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