Your situation has too many variables to answer in this format. You definitely should speak with an attorney as soon as possible.
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You have a lot of stuff going on and you definatley need a local attny, he or she will help you.
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First of all, do NOT do divorce with forms. The best forms are inadequate, and incorrectly done, you may have major problems. See a lawyer.
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Every divorce settlement agreement must be tailored to the specific needs of the client. While there is common language, the devil is in the details. You need to consult with an attorney to ensure an agreement is presented that will be accepted by the Court.
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