The burden of proof is upon the mother. Unless she can prove that there is a ground to reopen the order, such as fraud or excusable neglect, she will not get anywhere unless there has been physical or emotional harm to the children. Then, he needs to argue that she has not met the burden. He should consult with an experienced family law attorney to discuss this.
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