If you are not paying child support nor spousal support, then there is no reason to have life insurance. If you die and you are not paying your spouse from your income, then why should your spouse get a windfall by your death. Hire your own lawyer to represent you.
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Unless you have a maintenance/ support obligation to her, or have another financial obligation to her post-divorce, there is no reason she should remain your beneficiary following the divorce.
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