fd case, jnt custody, i m the non cusdial parent. judge agreed to have my mom babysit our son one day a week. My mom has been doing this for 2.5 yrs. last month, my son's mom unilaterally decided that my son will be removed from his babysitter to be watched by her parents. I filed a motion to object.. Meanwhile mom is refusingt to disclose names of her parents, refuse to let me call in to see how my baby is doing, What can I do? In case of emergency I have no clue who they are. I also want to see if the have a criminal back., granparents also rape kids, etc sound harsh but its reality. NJ state check all adults that live at same house as caregiver. My mom has cried a lot to increase more time w my son, but mother say no. why for mom is ok her parents watch my son and not ok for my momas of right now I just know my son is with his grandparents, with my agrrenment, no have a clue how old are they, what are the names, etc, This is BASIC information that any parent should know regarding if they are family. Also based on this unilateral decision my mother is sad that she had to fight in crt to get one day to watch my son. She is telling why her parents can watch him all summer and for me one day? how she can increase her time. Mom has 100% ownership on my son, me as a father has no value
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