you would have to petition the probate court for you to become her guardian. you would need the dr. to fill out a form that she cannot take care of herself. your county court clerk should have all the forms you need. however, the clerk cannot give you legal advice.
in lake county there is a bar assn. supported guardian help desk. there may be one in your county.
If she is incapable of loving alone you may need to hve a guardian appointed. Speak with an Elder Care attorney.
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I agree with the others that a guardianship is necessary. What was not addressed is the fact that you live 1000 miles from you mother. Therefore, you need to see a probate attorney ASAP to discuss how best to proceed with this guardianship. It is possible that either your mother will need to move closer to you , or you to her, or a third person or agency be named her guardian to look after your mother's day to day needs. You indicate that you are from Marion, IL, which implies that your mother is not a resident of Illinois. Therefore, your best approach would be to consult with an attorney in the location where your mother resides. If at a later point, you wish to move your mother closer to you, heer guardianship can be transferred. Please do not delay. It sounds like your mother is badly in need of care.