You can expect a very bad day in court. You need a lawyer. Being there where you have no lawyer and he does is like taking a water pistol to a gun battle where the other side has a machine gun. And you should be filing the appropriate discovery dispute notice under the Uniform Rules, and then if needed a motion for sanctions before trial.
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My colleague is exactly right. You are looking at having one of the worst days of your life. You should hire an attorney immediately!
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