The first thing to do is to NOT discuss any more facts of this case anywhere on the Internet. Anything you say on any website can be used against you by the prosecutor in the case.
The next thing you need to do is to contact one of the local Avvo criminal defense attorneys in your area. Most attorneys on Avvo will give you a free 30 minute consultation to discuss the facts of the case and the defenses that are available. These are serious charges. Good luck with this situation.
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This is serious. You need to get a criminal lawyer ASAP. I agree with my colleague about not posting any more incriminating information on a public site. Only speak to your lawyer.
It doesn't matter that the gun wasn't loaded or that you didn't point it directly at them. It will help that you were in your own home. You need to consult criminal defense attorneys in your area. Most offer free consultations. I would start calling around as soon as possible.
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STOP POSTING ANYTHING ABOUT THIS SITUATION ON A PUBLIC CHAT BOARD!!
In no way am I offering you legal advice, and in no way has my comment created an attorney-client relationship. You are not to rely upon my note above in any way, but insted need to sit down with counsel and share all relevant facts before receiving fully-informed legal advice. If you want to be completely sure of your rights, you must sit down with an experienced criminal defense attorney to be fully aware of your rights.