If there is a change in circumstance, you could seek a modification of the court order. Especially since the non-custodial parent lives 4 hours away, daily visitation (and the daily driving back and forth) probably isn't the best option. If the father is not exercising his visitation, and since he moved further away, his visitation should be reduced. Similarly, if the father's visitation is reduced, his child support should increase (all other things being equal).
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You should seek a modification based on the best interests of the child. The threats, harassment, and failure to exercise placement all will work to your advantage.
You need a modification of your court order. It is unmanageable the way it is written. Also as your chick grows the needs of an infant change and they grow from baby to toddler to child. These can be considered enough of a change of circumstances for the court to modify your order. Good luck.
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