With 110 plants you are likely looking at jail time. Manufacture of marijuana is 1-10 years. You would be elidgible for 16-13-2 (drug first offender) or regular first offender. It will be up to the judge to decide to let you enter a plea to first offender (and assuming you have little to no criminal history).
Your best option is to hire an attorney, and since you and your wife may have conflicting postions (if it's hers and not yours), you may be better served each having your own attorney. That many plants can equal some serious jail time, don't wait to get someone working on this for you.