Once someone becomes 18, they're legally an adult and can do whatever they want to - joint he army, get married, vote, etc.
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I agree with the previous attorney's response. However, typically the student can consent to disclosure of records/information to his/her parent(s). The consent should be specific, in-writing, and directed to appropriate school personnel.
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