It is not yet enforceable if it hasn't become an order.
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While it is a contract and therefore can be enforced as a contract. However, until it is incorporated into a Final Decree of Divorce it is not enforceable as though it were an order of the Court. You will need to file a Complaint for Divorce and attempt through the Final Decree to incorporate the PSA. After the decree is entered you will be able to enforce the PSA if your former spouse is not complying with the term.
Marital agreements, including separation agreements and property settlement agreements, are enforced in Virginia, in accordance with the Virignia Premarital Agreement Act and ordinary contract law. The court is not bound by your contract concerning child custody, child visitation, or child support. Other lawful provisions may be enforced just as any other contract in Virginia.
The contract must be incorporated into a decree in order to take advantage of the court's contempt powers. Although this is normally done at the conclusion of the case by incorporation into the Final Decree of Divorce, it may be done earlier in the process with court approval.
While the following video explains that a separation agreement is not necessary for a no fault divorce in Virginia, it is often advantageous to the parties: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loYydKDEcn0 .
You should consult with a Virginia lawyer to discuss your options.
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I agree with Ms. Sauer. Although it has not been incorporated into your FDD and would not be enforceable as an order, you still have contractual rights. Regardless, I always recommend a minimal lapse between the date you enter into a PSA and file for a divorce.
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