My ex just texted me that he took my 2 yr old and 4 yr old to the dentist without my knowledge or permission. We have joint legal decision making. I feel I should have been advised and given the opportunity to have a say-so and attend the appointment. Throughout our marriage he ran his own agenda with the children behind my back (putting rice cereal in their breastmilk bottles against my wishes when they were newborns), etc. Several days ago he said his girlfriend would be keeping the children but refused to give me any contact information or location where they would be.
My suggestion would be to document and date everything that has been occurring. Try and do so via text message and email if at all possible. Failure to cooperate on two occasions wont typically rise to the level of substantial and continuing change in circumstances. It may be appropriate to appoint a parenting coordinator, or go to mediation regarding these issues. I suggest you consult with an attorney regarding this, determine what viable options you have.
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