You may file a complaint for contempt or a like kind action in your state or a modification type action if you would like to alter the parenting plan, please work with a local TX attny and he or she will help you, take care.
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Document, document, document.
You need witnesses that are willing to come to court to testify to what you are seeing. You need evidence of everything.
I recommend that you meet in person with an experienced family law attorney and begin discussing how you are going to begin building a case to take him back to court to modify the current court order. The burden is on you to prove that the current court order is not working.
Just because the kids aren't brushing their teeth and not bathing each day is not a life threatening situation Believe it or not, many people don't do this on a daily basis. You are going to need more than this to get a judge to intervene and modify the current court order. They might stink and be nasty, but so far you don't have grounds to modify the current court order, in my humble opinion. You are going to need something much "stronger" to get a judge to take notice.
Quite frankly, these cases take many months to develop, so keep a dairy of what is going on.
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The short answer: take him to court. The long answer: you should hire an attorney in your area to help you, then you can file a motion for the Court to find your ex in contempt or file a motion to modify the current visitation order and ask for supervised visitation or no visitation at all. It is in your best interest to hire an attorney and make sure your kids are taken care of when they are not in your possession.
If you believe that your ex is negligent in the care of your children then you must take necessary action quickly, you cannot condone his actions. It is very important for you to have evidence, witnesses willing to testify as to this behavior, and/or your own personal first-hand knowledge. Depending on what your final divorce orders state, you can file a motion to enforce and a motion to modify his access and possession of the children. Your question and related facts raise serious questions as to the children's physical health and emotional development and I would recommend consulting with an attorney as soon as possible.
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