In New York, divorces are handled by the state Supreme Court. Family court may have authority to make various orders concerning marital assets and distribution, but does not have the jurisdiction to dissolve the marriage.
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If the site says a Family Court judge can sign off on a divorce, it's wrong.
In New York only a Supreme Court judge can handle a divorce case, collaborative or otherwise.
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