father and I just finished the mediation 2 weeks ago (this is our second time going to court after our original court ordered 7 months ago). we finally got the paperwork from mediation and I disagree with some of mediation recommendations. For instance i wanted to change holidays to yearly for each of us to share. Our son just turned 1 yr and I didn't want father to have overnights at the moment until he's older (about 3 yrs) What can i expect from the judge? Can I tell the judge what i want or will he just order what mediation recommended?