It is impossible to predict what will happen in Court without learning more about the mother and the father of this child. Typically, for a child so young, and given the circumstances you mention above, the mother would have a very strong case for retaining primary physical custody. However, if you proceed to Court unrepresented you will not be as prepared as you would should you retain counsel.
My law firm offers free consultations and flexible payment plans to help with your difficult financial circumstances. This issue is far too important to resolve without counsel. There are many steps that the mother could take (including appointing a Guardian Ad Litem, requesting mediation, requesting extensive Discovery Materials from the boyfriend and /or requesting DNA / Paternity testing) that would help resolve these issues before things got too costly or too contested.
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