Age of consent is 18, but there is a close in age exception. If her mother neuters you, she could be charged with a crime. The jury might even convict her. The child is too young. Why don't you join the Navy, see the world, learn a trade, enjoy the ports of the Med, and see her why she gets back. If the relationship is strong, she will still be there and you will have the means to support a family.
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