Negligence is a careless mistake. Gross negligence is wilfull, wanton and reckless, bordering a thin hair's breadth away from intentional conduct.
The best example was given by a famous U.S. Supreme Court judge many years ago: even a dog knows the difference between being tripped over and being kicked.
[Opposing counsel, the judge and I worked together on a jury instruction that we could all live with and that would be "appeal-proof." While our language was a bit more flowery, this is what it boiled down to. Your attorney and judge will do the same based on the facts of your case.]
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Gross negligence in most states is considered to be a "conscious and voluntary disregard of the need to use reasonable care." As in the individual did not care if anyone was going to get hurt, like speeding down a residential street at 60 mph. Negligence is a mere failure to exercise reasonable care, like not paying attention while driving.
This is an important distinction because a finding of gross negligence will pre-empt certain defenses, like contributory negligence.
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In addition to the fine answers already provided, frequently people look to find out about "gross negligence" when trying to see if they are able to sue their employer in addition to the benefits available under Workers' Compensation. You should check with a local New York Personal Injury Attorney to get a free initial consultation. Good luck.
-Jeffrey M. Donato, Esq., Bohemia, NY
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