I was under the impression that the situation was taken care through the court as I submitted documentation to the family division Manager of my inability to pay. I was not aware that I had to file an actual motion for modification and go in front of a judge. I have had my child with me physically an average of 4 to 15 days a month. Since the order was issued March of this year. I take care of all of her expenses when she is with me and have bought things like clothing and shoes to go over to her moms house. This was a simple misunderstanding on my part of court procedures. What is the best way you would suggest to handle this? Thank you in advance for any input you can give me.