Because your relative was in jail, she was ineligible for her SS payment, meaning you had no business cashing it. SS has every right to have the money returned, including what you paid yourself. They are saying that you breached your duty to your relative to handle her finances properly. I understand that you didn't know where she was, but that's not a justification for spending her money. You need to return the money ASAP.
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