What result do you want? Do you really want to put a 14 year old in the criminal system? f so, call the police. Have you tried separating them? Is there another parent that can help?
There is more going on here. This child needs psychological help, not criminal charges. Please, for the sake of the entire family, seek out therapy for the child, and yourself. Good luck.
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