The court will not look favorably upon her failing to show up to mediation. The court may order the parties to meet and see if a settlement can be reached prior to proceeding forward with the hearing. If she fails to show for the court date, assuming all proper procedure has been complied with, and you have been established as the father, the court may make orders regarding custody and visitation as to the best interests of the child. Note that since you have not had visitation with the minor child for some time, and based on his age, the court may start with limited visitation time and then gradually increase it as the child gets older. The standard the court will be considering, after your parental rights have been established, is the best interests of the child.
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