You may be able to do, however, this is one situation when you would truly need to have a chat with a competent immigration attorney beforehand.
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To obtain a permanent green card and remove the conditions on your conditional green card in this scenario you need to get divorced first and then you can file for the removal at any time but you need competent counsel to help you with this since this is a complicated process but you do not have to continue living in an unhappy marriage if you do not want to.
It is best to consult with an experienced Immigration Attorney to discuss your options.
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The question is whether the relationship with your husband was entered into in good faith. Once you can answer "yes" to this question then you would need to considered what type of evidence you would be able to present to immigration to confirm your relationship was real. Another consideration is the impact of a divorce and the timing of said divorce. As my colleagues stated, it's best to consult an immigration attorney to review your case, evidence, and your future actions to determine what is the best thing to do in your case.