Case was filed Oct 12, then they ordered optional mediation with a bulk mediation company. I wasn't served, they only served ex hubby who is not on the note, never lived here and we have been divorced 5 years, he was just on the mortgage as we were still married when I bought the house. I think the papers crossed. But if it's helps would go, I only can and want do short sale or deed in lieu. This is in Pinellas county, they say I only once one chance of mediation but as I haven't been served or constructive is not done, don't feel I should be using up my one chance yet.