Sole custody means you have legal and residential custody. The non custodial parent has visitation rights and must pay child support.If either parent intereferes with the parenting time of the other, that is normally considered a violation of the court order, and in some cases the intefering parent can be arrested.
I would start of by telling the ncp that this person has permission to pick up your children, and if he does not permit it you will file an notice to enforce the original court order, with a request for court sanctions. If this person is your current boyfriend, the court might consider that an unnecessary provocation on your part.
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