i went to court today and the judge said that the police reports i have filed do not show any threat of physical harm so he would not grant the HRO. the defendant is mentally ill, is on meds last i knew, i have had a block on my phone for over a year, so now she uses my son's father's phone to contact me. i percieve her as a threat to my 7 year old son who has autism, because he is the link between me and my son's father, who she seems to be obsessed with (he says they are only friends, she stated in court that he is her boyfriend). she also accused me of stalking in court, which i have not done ( i even asked my son's father after court if he thinks i stalk him, and he said 'no'. ) this woman is desperate and i am fearful that she may harm me or my son. she will not go away. lots more!